I love Ho'oponopono. I think forgiveness is the way to move on and heal from hurt and pain. I think unconditional love has been misconstrued in a toxic way. If we love ourselves then we would not become a doormat to anyone. I didn't learn this until I discovered love through spirituality. In any teaching we should aim to follow what is right for us and feels good in our hearts. We will all have different perspectives based on our experiences. Love this article Diana, thank you for sharing this with us.